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It is often, when you want to break up with a guy, he uses many reasons and even sometimes threatens you, so that you don't break the relationship. Here are 8 common reasons he would say and how to deal with them:
1. "I'm going back to my old habits"
He feels that you are a girl who knows his bad past very well. Okay, you know his past and perhaps because of you, he successfully changed. But that doesn't mean he should relied on you too much. Dare to make a choice, dare to be responsible!
Just say: "Whatever, do it with your own risk."
2. "I'd rather kill myself than have to lose you"
That's a horrific expression! He wants you to feel pity, fear and worry about his condition. In most cases, people who threaten suicide like this, are actually just bluffing. In other words, he is just looking for attention!
Just say: "Your mind is too shallow. Suicide won't solve your problem!"
3. "My life will fall apart without you"
It all depends on his own. His life is not on your hand!
Just say: "It all depends on you. Your future is not in the hands of others."
4. "I don't have anyone other than you"
Geez.. It seems he loves you to death! Of course he has parents and friends who care about him. If he really doesn't have any, you have to encourage him to socialize
Just say: "You have to socialize with people! Of course you don't have any friends if you depend on me too much."
5. "I've never met a perfect girl like you"
Don't get a big head about it. Nobody's perfect, right? Besides, what's the point of going out with him if you feel uncomfortable anymore?
Just say: "Thanks for the compliment. But I'm not as perfect as that. I'm sure you'll meet with someone better than me."
6. "What is my fault? why did you do this to me?"
It's a natural reaction after being dumped. Explain to him that the break up is not due to his fault or your fault. You can say that the relationship won't be good if you continue.
Just say: "It's not your fault, really. Indeed we have to do self-reflection, so that we can learn from this."
7. "I'm going to spread all your bad characteristics to your friends."
Take it easy, he's not the only one who knows your bad side. Your parents and your best friend must already know your character.
Just say: "As you wish, but my friends trust me more than you."
8. "You are the only girl who can make me cry like this."
Don't be confused if you see a guy cry in front of you. Give a tissue and let him cry to spill his feelings. But, you should be able to distinguish between the real tears and fake tears so that you feel sorry for him.
Just say: "I'm sorry that I make you cry. But I think, the best way for us is to separate. I'm sure you can make it through this problem."
1. "I'm going back to my old habits"
He feels that you are a girl who knows his bad past very well. Okay, you know his past and perhaps because of you, he successfully changed. But that doesn't mean he should relied on you too much. Dare to make a choice, dare to be responsible!
Just say: "Whatever, do it with your own risk."
2. "I'd rather kill myself than have to lose you"
That's a horrific expression! He wants you to feel pity, fear and worry about his condition. In most cases, people who threaten suicide like this, are actually just bluffing. In other words, he is just looking for attention!
Just say: "Your mind is too shallow. Suicide won't solve your problem!"
3. "My life will fall apart without you"
It all depends on his own. His life is not on your hand!
Just say: "It all depends on you. Your future is not in the hands of others."
4. "I don't have anyone other than you"
Geez.. It seems he loves you to death! Of course he has parents and friends who care about him. If he really doesn't have any, you have to encourage him to socialize
Just say: "You have to socialize with people! Of course you don't have any friends if you depend on me too much."
5. "I've never met a perfect girl like you"
Don't get a big head about it. Nobody's perfect, right? Besides, what's the point of going out with him if you feel uncomfortable anymore?
Just say: "Thanks for the compliment. But I'm not as perfect as that. I'm sure you'll meet with someone better than me."
6. "What is my fault? why did you do this to me?"
It's a natural reaction after being dumped. Explain to him that the break up is not due to his fault or your fault. You can say that the relationship won't be good if you continue.
Just say: "It's not your fault, really. Indeed we have to do self-reflection, so that we can learn from this."
7. "I'm going to spread all your bad characteristics to your friends."
Take it easy, he's not the only one who knows your bad side. Your parents and your best friend must already know your character.
Just say: "As you wish, but my friends trust me more than you."
8. "You are the only girl who can make me cry like this."
Don't be confused if you see a guy cry in front of you. Give a tissue and let him cry to spill his feelings. But, you should be able to distinguish between the real tears and fake tears so that you feel sorry for him.
Just say: "I'm sorry that I make you cry. But I think, the best way for us is to separate. I'm sure you can make it through this problem."
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